Headmistress Valentina Nicole's Limits | Kinks | Fetishes



Here is an exhaustive list of Kinks & Fetishes that I engage in with my submissive / salves.


Table of Contents:

General Kinks 

Character Preferences 

Gender Preferences

Specises Preferences

Age Related 

Anal Sex & Play

Oral Sex & Play

Cock Play

Cum Related 

Roleplay Preferences

Themes & Settings 

Body Worship & Play 

Dress Up & Materials 

Dom / Sub & Psyche Play 

BDSM

Roughness / Pain 

Gore / Torture / Death 

Inflation, Growth, & Sizeplay

Transformation 

Pregancy & Breeding 

Unclean Themes & Play 

Watersports & Scat 


 General Kinks 

Sex Toys | [] Favorite [✅] Yes [] No

Refers to the inclusion of (generally penetrating) sex toys in an RP, including but not limited to dildos, vibrators, anal eggs, anal beads, flesh tubes, etc.

Strap-ons | [πŸ’Ÿ] Favorite [] Yes [] No

Engaging in an RP in which at least one character will wear a strap-on to penetrate another character.


Character Preferences 

Anthro Characters | [] Favorite [✅] Yes [] No

Characters that are anthropomorphic in nature, typically defined as an object or animal species with human characteristics.

Chubby | [] Favorite [✅] Yes [] No

Expresses an interest in characters that are well-rounded and pudgy, with a little more extra weight than average but not necessarily fat.

Intelligent Characters | [] Favorite [✅] Yes [] No

Exhibits a preference for characters that have particularly high levels of intelligence, wit, cunning and manipulation skills.

Shorter Characters | [] Favorite [✅] Yes [] No

An expressed interest in characters that are shorter than one's character.

Size Differences (1-3 Feet) | [] Favorite [✅] Yes [] No

Engaging in an RP in which the height difference between any, two characters is between one and three feet.

Size Differences (Micro / Macro) | [] Favorite [✅] Yes [] No

Engaging in an RP in which the height difference between any, two characters is extremely large.

Skinny Characters | [] Favorite [✅] Yes [] No

Expresses an interest in characters that are rather thin or lank.

Small Cocks | [] Favorite [✅] Yes [] No

Expresses an interest in cocks that are smaller than five inches.

Taller Characters | [] Favorite [✅] Yes [] No

An expressed interest in characters that are taller than one's character.


Gender Preferences

Females | [] Favorite [✅] Yes [] No

Males | [] Favorite [✅] Yes [] No

Nonbinary | [] Favorite [✅] Yes [] No

Shemales | [] Favorite [✅] Yes [] No

Trans Females | [] Favorite [✅] Yes [] No

Transgender | [] Favorite [✅] Yes [] No

Trans Males | [] Favorite [✅] Yes [] No


Species Preferences

Note: Prefer humans,  Furries are accepted

Humans | [] Favorite [✅] Yes [] No

Characters that are purely human, generally realistic, and generally contain no fantasy or supernatural elements (but not necessarily).


Age Related 

Age Differences | [] Favorite [✅] Yes [] No

Adult characters with significant gaps in the ages between them (does not imply underage).

Ageplay | [] Favorite [] Yes [❎] No

Refers to scenes that involve one or more significantly underage characters, and putting a significant focus on that age aspect and it's involvement in the roleplay (such as highlighting youthfulness, immaturity, or the taboo nature of one's age). May include sexual interactions, but not necessarily.

Age Regression | [] Favorite [] Yes [❎] No

Scenes in which a character becomes younger, physically and sometimes mentally.

Underage Characters | [] Favorite [] Yes [❎] No

A situation in which at least one character involved will be under the age of 18.


Anal Sex & Play

Anal Sex (Giving) | [] Favorite [✅] Yes [] No

The act of anally penetrating a partner.

Anal Training | [] Favorite [✅] Yes [] No

Engaging in the use of the various anatomy of a character's anus to otherwise prepare and / or acclimate the character to an insertion, the size of which the character would not otherwise be comfortable taking.

Anal Virginity | [] Favorite [✅] Yes [] No

Engaging in anal sex with a character who has never been anally penetrated before, or being anally penetrated while playing a character that has never been penetrated before.

Pegging | [] Favorite [✅] Yes [] No

Anal penetration with a strap-on.

Rimming (Receiving) | [] Favorite [✅] Yes [] No

The act of receiving oral stimulation to one's anus, by the means of licking and / or having one's anus penetrated by the tongue.


Oral Sex & Play

Ass to Mouth | [] Favorite [✅] Yes [] No

a fetish in which the submissive desires for his Domme to instruct him to penetrate his own ass with a toy and then place that same toy into his mouth afterwards; the submissive is subservient and is looking to be humiliated and controlled by his Domme.


Cock Play

Cock Slapping | [] Favorite [✅] Yes [] No

The act of using one's penis to slap one's partner and / or being slapped by a penis, usually in order to humiliate or debase a bottom prior to or during fellatio.


Cum Related 

Cum Eating Instructions | [] Favorite [✅] Yes [] No

A fetish in which the Domme instructs the submissive to eat his own orgasm; the submissive is looking for the Domme to instruct and encourage him to eat his own cum, usually this is paired with anticipation and humiliation.

Cum Milking | [] Favorite [✅] Yes [] No

The act of collecting or milking the semen from at least one partner, typically done through manual or mechanical stimulation to the penis, or using stored semen as a sexual toy in an RP. Often involves machines and apparati.

Snowballing | [] Favorite [✅] Yes [] No

The act of receiving cum into one's mouth transmitted from another person's mouth, or french kissing while sharing a load of cum between one anothers' mouths.


Roleplay Preferences

Nonsexual Roleplay | [] Favorite [✅] Yes [] No

Scenes of extended play that involve either no sex or very little sex.

Private Roleplay | [] Favorite [✅] Yes [] No

Expresses an interest in conducting roleplay in private, be it private messages, notes, or some other nonpublic means of messaging.

Public Room Roleplay | [] Favorite [✅] Yes [] No

Expresses an interest in conducting roleplays publicly, usually in a group with other players, in an open room within F-Chat (or group threads).

Story Driven | [] Favorite [✅] Yes [] No

Expresses a preference for RPs where plot and story are the focal point, typically involving complex situations, character development, framed scenes, elaboration, and amplification of settings. Often (but not necessarily) comparatively containing little sex.


Themes & Settings 

Medical Play | [] Favorite [✅] Yes [] No

Nightclubs / Bars | [πŸ’Ÿ] Favorite [] Yes [] No

Race Play | [] Favorite [✅] Yes [] No

Scenes - Dungeon | [πŸ’Ÿ] Favorite [] Yes [] No

Scenes - Locker Room | [πŸ’Ÿ] Favorite [] Yes [] No

Scenes - Office | [πŸ’Ÿ] Favorite [] Yes [] No

Scenes - School | [πŸ’Ÿ] Favorite [] Yes [] No

Small Domme / Big Sub | [] Favorite [✅] Yes [] No


Body Worship & Play 


Ass Worship | [] Favorite [✅] Yes [] No

Gratuitous acknowledgment of one's partner's ass or buttocks, either verbal and / or physical, or receiving such actions.

Body Writing | [] Favorite [✅] Yes [] No

The act of writing, drawing, or painting various (typically sexual or degrading) words or pictures onto a character’s body.

Breast / Nipple Worship | [] Favorite [✅] Yes [] No

Gratuitous acknowledgement of one's partner's chest or nipples, either verbal and / or physical, or receiving such actions.

Foot Play | [] Favorite [✅] Yes [] No

The act of incorporating the feet or feet paws into the sexual context of an RP, including but not limited to the worshiping of feet, receiving sexual gratification from the sight or feel of feet and / or humping feet, sometimes to the point of orgasm.


Dress Up & Materials 

Diapers | [] Favorite [] Yes [❎] No

A situation in which at least one character will wear a diaper. May imply "soiling usage" of the diaper, but not necessarily. Often related with ageplay or infantilism, but sometimes in conjunction with humiliation.

Footgear Worship | [] Favorite [✅] Yes [] No

The act of giving gratuitous acknowledgment to the shoes or boots of one's partner, typically referring to oral play, often to clean or shine the exterior of the shoes or boots, or musk play, when regarding the interior of the shoes or boots.

Latex/Rubber | [] Favorite [✅] Yes [] No

The use of leather, often in a bondage situation; typically includes leather garments or equipment associated with dominants, as well as harness gear.

Leather | [] Favorite [✅] Yes [] No

The use of leather, often in a bondage situation; typically includes leather garments or equipment associated with dominants, as well as harness gear.

Masks | [] Favorite [✅] Yes [] No

The use of masks (surgical, BDSM, gas masks, etc), typically to conceal the wearer's identity, in an RP scene.

Socks / Stockings | [] Favorite [✅] Yes [] No

Expresses an interest in the inclusion of socks and / or stockings in the sexual context of an RP, or an interest in characters wearing such.

Uniform | [] Favorite [✅] Yes [] No

The act of being sexually aroused by uniforms or work-related attire, and / or engaging in RPs in which characters will wear such clothing.


Dom / Sub & Psyche Play 

Begging | [] Favorite [✅] Yes [] No

The self-abasing act of pleading, as a form of submission, being incorporated into an RP.


Chastity | [] Favorite [✅] Yes [] No

Sexual abstinence, either willing or forced; this can include someone simply abstaining from sexual activity, or the wearing of a device that prevents it.


Coercion / Blackmail | [] Favorite [] Yes [❎] No

Refers to the inclusion of Coercion and / or Blackmail in the context of the story arc of an RP, often in the form of a semi-consensual means of receiving goods, services, or sex from a partner.

Note: I do not engage because this fetish brings begging freeloaders - no do not DM a photo of you in a dress and beg to expose you... Thats not how this works 99% into this fetish are desperate and needy, sorry, not sorry.

Degradation | [] Favorite [✅] Yes [] No

A situation where one character will be purposefully degraded, usually as a means of lowering their self worth; typically in the context of guilt or BDSM.


Dirty Talking | [] Favorite [✅] Yes [] No

The act of speaking in a typically explicit manner to provoke sexual stimulation from a participant, sometimes one's self; often in the context of seduction or foreplay.


Discipline / Reinforcement | [] Favorite [✅] Yes [] No

The use of reinforcement (rewards and / or punishments) in order to train a submissive to obey the various commands of a master.


Extreme Humiliation | [] Favorite [✅] Yes [] No

Engaging in an RP in which one character will purposefully be humiliated to the point (or attempted point) of intense, mental anguish and total loss of self-worth through sexual interaction; typically implies exceptional or devastating, psychological damage.


Femdom - Female Domination | [πŸ’Ÿ] Favorite [] Yes [] No

Play in which a character of female gender takes the role of dominant, maintaining control and authority; being considered the focal point of the dynamic. It is defined as an exchange founded on her needs, pleasures, and desires, with the submissive’s purpose to provide service to her first and foremost.


Findom - Financial Domination | [πŸ’Ÿ] Favorite [] Yes [] No

a fetish lifestyle in which a financial submissive desires to give gifts or money to a financial dominant.

Feminization | [] Favorite [✅] Yes [] No

The act of changing the appearance of a male identifying character through traditionally realistic means to have them appear more feminine / female. Typically implies the use of makeup, feminine clothes / accessories, as well as possibly adopting more feminine mannerisms and behaviors.


Forced Nudity | [πŸ’Ÿ] Favorite [] Yes [] No

The act of either forcing a character to be nude or being forced to be nude by another character; typically used in public situations.


Humiliation | [] Favorite [✅] Yes [] No

Engaging in an RP in which one character will be embarrassed, typically extremely and / or frequently, in an attempt to elicit either a response of sexual gratification from the emotions correlating to humiliation, or merely as a form of psychological domination or punishment; typically a more intense form of degradation.


Master / Pet | [] Favorite [✅] Yes [] No

Engaging in an RP in which a domination / submission relationship is played between at least two characters, and in which the bottom character takes on the role of a pet; typically a training-based scenario with positive reinforcement over negative reinforcement, as well as the inclusion of affection.


Master / Slave | [πŸ’Ÿ] Favorite [] Yes [] No

Engaging in an RP in which a domination / submission relationship is played between at least two characters, and in which the bottom character takes on the role of a slave; typically requires the slave to accept any and all commands, often involves non-sexual forms of abuse and uses negative reinforcement.


Objectification | [] Favorite [✅] Yes [] No

The act of either being treated or treating another character as a specific and set object, often articles of furniture, or bestowing dehumanizing tasks to a character in order to imbue a character with the traits of an object.


Orientation Play | [] Favorite [✅] Yes [] No

Expresses an interest in RP's in which one character's sexual orientation will be a focal point of the scene, typically in correlation with the discovery, exploration, or coercion of bisexuality / homosexuality in the sexuality of a character.


Physical Restraints | [] Favorite [✅] Yes [] No

The act of giving or receiving commands, typically verbal, that limit the way in which another character is permitted to physically interact with another character.


Powerbottoming | [] Favorite [] Yes [❎] No

An expressed interest in a sexual exchange where the character who is receiving penetration is in control, dominant, taking initiative, or directing the interaction.


Public Humiliation | [] Favorite [✅] Yes [] No

One or more characters engaging in explicit sexual activity, and / or embarrassing situations, in a public setting for the purposes of humiliating one or more characters.


Sexual Restraints | [] Favorite [✅] Yes [] No

Refers to a dominant giving a command for how the submissive may act in regard to sexual acts or within a sexual situation; often a decree of chastity or prohibition from any form of sexual contact.


Uppity | [] Favorite [] Yes [❎] No

Expresses an interest in engaging in an RP in which the submissive and / or bottom character is combative and disobedient in any number of ways.


Verbal Abuse | [] Favorite [✅] Yes [] No

The act of verbally accosting or being verbally accosted with derogatory terms pertaining to sex, or in the effort to demean, degrade or otherwise humiliate another character, or occasionally to elicit sexual stimulation from abuse.



BDSM

Aftercare | [] Favorite [✅] Yes [] No

Comforting care and maintenance carried out between two characters after a particularly rigorous experience, such as after BDSM scenes or heavy / harsh exchanges. May consist of talking, cuddling, and various forms of pampering.


Blindfolds | [] Favorite [✅] Yes [] No

The use of blindfolds or other objects to obscure the vision of at least one character in a sexual context.


Caging | [] Favorite [✅] Yes [] No

The act of placing another character in a cage, or being placed in a cage, or other confining, device.


Crying | [] Favorite [✅] Yes [] No

The involvement and presence of someone crying or making a character do so, usually as the result of pain or actions carried out against them (which may or may not stimulate arousal from the inflictor).


Flogging / Whipping | [] Favorite [✅] Yes [] No

The use of toys being employed against another character, particularly referring to contact play involving whips of any type, riding crops, paddles, or flogs.


Gags | [] Favorite [✅] Yes [] No

The act of placing and lodging an object in another character's mouth to force them to breathe through their nose, as well as creating the inability to speak, or receiving such actions.


Heavy / Extreme Bondage | [] Favorite [✅] Yes [] No

The use of bondage that is extreme in either the position in which it causes the bound character to be in, the duration for which the character will be in bondage, the level of discomfort caused by the bondage or the amount of immobilization that will occur due to the bondage.


Immobilization (Bondage) | [] Favorite [✅] Yes [] No

Engaging in an RP in which at least one character will be physically immobilized, typical by heavy bondage or mummification from BDSM, but may be from other methods like entrapment or suppression.


Leash & Collar | [] Favorite [✅] Yes [] No

Engaging in an RP in which a character will be adorned with a collar that will be attached to a leash.

Light / Medium Bondage | [] Favorite [✅] Yes [] No

The use of bondage that is mild or moderate in either the position in which it causes the bound character to be in, the duration for which the character will be in bondage, the level of discomfort caused by the bondage or the amount of immobilization that will occur due to the bondage.


Orgasm Control / Denial | [] Favorite [✅] Yes [] No

Refers to the dominant(s) being in control of when the submissive(s) achieve(s) orgasm, either by physical means or by command; typically involves domination and / or excessive teasing and edging; orgasm may be completely denied


Pleasure Control / Denial | [] Favorite [✅] Yes [] No

Engaging in an RP in which one character is in a position to administer or withhold any form of physical, sexual or psychological pleasure to another character; pleasure may be completely denied.


Sensory Deprivation | [] Favorite [✅] Yes [] No

Expresses an interest in the deliberate reduction or removal of stimuli from one or more of the senses. May include devices such as blindfolds, hoods, or earmuffs to cut off sight and hearing, or more complex devices that can cut off a character’s sense of smell, touch, taste, heat sense, or gravity.


Suspension Play | [] Favorite [✅] Yes [] No

Engaging in an RP that includes suspension apparatuses and / or rope toys, which typically will suspend one character above the bed or floor; often uncomfortable.




Roughness / Pain 

Abuse | [] Favorite [✅] Yes [] No

The act of applying abusive actions onto a character, typically through acts of physical violence. Involves subjecting a character(s) to unpleasant situations and behaviors.

Ballbusting | [πŸ’Ÿ] Favorite [] Yes [] No

Harm to the testicles, usually for sexual pleasure.

Biting | [] Favorite [✅] Yes [] No

The act of biting or being bitten; sometimes painful, sometimes playful.

Breath Control | [] Favorite [✅] Yes [] No

A situation in which at least one character will have physical control over the breathing habits of another character, often by either intermittent choking and / or due to the penetration of the throat.

Choking | [] Favorite [✅] Yes [] No

A situation in which one character will control another character's breath with extreme force, and typically for extended and / or dangerous periods of time.


Face Slapping | [] Favorite [✅] Yes [] No

Slaps to the face, of any degree or severity.

Hair Pulling | [] Favorite [✅] Yes [] No

The act of pulling or tugging on another character's hair, or being the recipient of such.

Roughness | [] Favorite [✅] Yes [] No

The involvement of rough behavior and actions (typically during sex) upon a partner. Usually denotes harsh grabbing, pulling, brisk brusque motions, and similar physical conduct.

Sadism / Masochism | [] Favorite [✅] Yes [] No

The act of taking the role of a sadist or masochist, meaning one that receives sexual gratification from being the recipient of or administering physical pain.

Scratching | [] Favorite [✅] Yes [] No

One character scratching another with their nails or claws, sometimes leaving marks; but not necessarily painful.

Sexual Pain | [] Favorite [✅] Yes [] No

Refers to the inclusion of physical pain due to acts which are directly sexual; typically rough or excessive penetrations.

Spanking | [πŸ’Ÿ] Favorite [] Yes [] No

The act of striking the buttocks of another character, or being the recipient of such; often as a form of erotic foreplay or as punishment in a BDSM setting.


Gore / Torture / Death

Bloodplay | [] Favorite [✅] Yes [] No

Pertains to the inclusion of blood or the retrieval of blood in any form in a sexual context, or engaging in acts which will draw blood.

Branding | [] Favorite [✅] Yes [] No

A situation in which at least one character will be branded, usually as a form of sadomasochism. Typically by means of applying intense heat in a specific pattern designed to visually show ownership.

Breast / Nipple Torture | [] Favorite [✅] Yes [] No

A situation in which at least one character's breasts or nipples will be the subject of physical, non-sexual pain of an extended duration.

Burning | [] Favorite [✅] Yes [] No

A situation in which at least one character will be burned. May include burning with such things as cigars, cigarettes, hot iron, or other methods.

Castration | [] Favorite [✅] Yes [] No

An action where the testicles (or ovaries) are removed or disabled, whether by surgical, chemical or magical means.

Emasculation | [] Favorite [] Yes [] No

The act whereby the genitalia are removed by magical or surgical means, usually the penis and / or the testicles. May also imply humiliation; e.g. to render a male less of a man.

Genital Torture | [] Favorite [] Yes [] No

Engaging in an RP in which at least one character's genitals will be given negative attention, the intent of which to be to cause physical pain.

Gore | [] Favorite [] Yes [❎] No

The involvement of graphic violence and carnage, generally of serious physical injuries involving blood, flesh, bone, and internal organs.


Impalement | [] Favorite [] Yes [❎] No

Describes a character being pierced by an object, and subsequently having it extend out and through an exit wound. Typically implies pain, torture, and is often fatal.

Mutilation | [] Favorite [] Yes [❎] No

The act of physically damaging or otherwise causing irreparable change and / or harm to a character in an RP, typically by the use of cutting, stabbing or contact objects; often exceptionally painful.

Necrophilia | [] Favorite [] Yes [❎] No

The act of having sex with a dead, or otherwise unconscious or inanimate, character that was once alive, or, theoretically, receiving such actions.

Nullification | [] Favorite [] Yes [❎] No

The removal / amputation of any body part.


Inflation, Growth, & Sizeplay

Breast Growth | [] Favorite [✅] Yes [] No

A situation in which at least one character's breasts grow in size, typically to fantastical proportions, by any means, including but not limited to magical or chemical.


Shrinking | [] Favorite [✅] Yes [] No

Reducing in body size, usually a reduction of about one foot in size, or being the receiver of such actions.


Weight Gain (Light / Medium) | [] Favorite [✅] Yes [] No

The act of a character gaining weight (be it through the increased consumption of food, magical / scifi effects, or other influences) or engaging in an RP where a character does as such. Typically in more realistic amounts and paces.


Weight Loss | [] Favorite [✅] Yes [] No

The act of losing of weight through various means, or engaging in an RP in which a character does such.May be done realistically, unrealistically, through starvation, work out, through magical / scifi effects, or a variety of other methods.



Transformation 

Bimbofication | [] Favorite [✅] Yes [] No

Scenes in which someone is turned into a stereotypical bimbo, often including breast growth, intelligence-reduction, increased sex drive, and more subtle change to features such as hair-color or general appearance.


Gender Transformation | [] Favorite [✅] Yes [] No

Transforming a character into another gender by various means, which may or may not include their sex. Encompasses both magical and sci-fi changes, as well as more realistic gender reassignment.




Pregancy & Breeding

Male Pregnancy | [] Favorite [✅] Yes [] No

The act of a male identifying character becoming pregnant during the course of an RP, or engaging in an RP in which at least one male character is pregnant.



Unclean Themes & Play 

Belching / Burping | [] Favorite [✅] Yes [] No

Belching, during sexual intercourse, or just as an act during the roleplay. May be exaggerated (visible expulsions of air) and / or with exaggerated burping noises, but not necessarily.

Dirty Feet | [] Favorite [✅] Yes [] No

Expresses an interest in feet that are deemed “unclean,” usually through sweat, dirt, or a buildup of grime.

Farting | [] Favorite [✅] Yes [] No

Farting, during sexual intercourse, or just as an act during the roleplay. May be exaggerated (visible expulsions of air) and / or with exaggerated flatulent noises, but not necessarily.


Watersports & Scat 

Marking | [] Favorite [✅] Yes [] No

The act of urinating on another character in order to mark them with your proprietary scent of urine, or being the recipient of such actions.

Scat | [] Favorite [] Yes [❎] No

Pertains to the inclusion of fecal matter or the expelling of fecal matter in any form in the sexual context of an RP.

Watersports | [πŸ’Ÿ] Favorite [] Yes [] No

Pertains to the inclusion of urine, or the expelling of urine, in any form, in the sexual context of an RP.



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